tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post5907959498948429178..comments2024-03-28T16:37:36.805-07:00Comments on Out My Window: Monday,Money saving madnessOut My windowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-50917948144993415962017-07-04T09:47:29.229-07:002017-07-04T09:47:29.229-07:00Thanks Jane. I feel really bad and I hope she for...Thanks Jane. I feel really bad and I hope she forgives me. Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-25975393576800988532017-07-04T09:46:34.817-07:002017-07-04T09:46:34.817-07:00Thank goodness, but did you trash yours on social ...Thank goodness, but did you trash yours on social media?Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-82296581954866555912017-07-04T08:48:49.931-07:002017-07-04T08:48:49.931-07:00I'm sure you and lil sis will get over this - ...I'm sure you and lil sis will get over this - my 4 sibs and I had many a disagreement over the years regarding our parents and their care - not everyone felt the same but we had to forgive and forget. Enuf said. When I was working I did what you are trying to do now - have 1 month's money ahead - it really did alleviate stress in a big way never having to worry about getting the money in there before the bills came along. Great strategy Kim!!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02803104035204416080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-11380434741068297792017-07-04T04:18:56.686-07:002017-07-04T04:18:56.686-07:00The best thing about sisters is that we are so for...The best thing about sisters is that we are so forgiving. My sister and I can get so angry at each other and lash out and the next minute we are laughing and giggling. It is a unique bond. Michelle82https://www.blogger.com/profile/08515965747974233992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-45849937073305984742017-07-03T18:16:41.943-07:002017-07-03T18:16:41.943-07:00Oh, Meg. I did this in hurt and anger. I should ...Oh, Meg. I did this in hurt and anger. I should not have. Mom is so good at getting between us and I really hurt my sister with this. Realize that I too am weak and just got myself down and feeling sorry for myself which although is a normal feeling should not be put out on social media. I love my sister and we are in this together.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-2970110669525432482017-07-03T18:14:56.312-07:002017-07-03T18:14:56.312-07:00As mom gets worse this situation gets worse. I al...As mom gets worse this situation gets worse. I allowed mom to come between sis and I. I am sorry and I love my sister to death. It was the religion thing that just set me off. mom will not change, but my sister and I have a long future together and I am ashamed that I printed some bad things about her or painted her in a bad light. She too is wonderful.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-48707523539187894832017-07-03T18:12:02.862-07:002017-07-03T18:12:02.862-07:00My sister is not the problem. Mom is the problem ...My sister is not the problem. Mom is the problem and I am allowing my mother to affect my relationship with my sister whom I love. I need to retract the things I have said as they are just feelings of anger over a situation and don't belong on this blog. I am feeling sorry for myself which makes me a bit bitchy. Okay alot bitchy. Like being locked up in an RV with my family when it is raining for days, and days, and days.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-45292629441084596682017-07-03T18:09:27.049-07:002017-07-03T18:09:27.049-07:00I need to apologize to my sister. I am allowing m...I need to apologize to my sister. I am allowing my relationship with my mother which is rocky because of her age and condition to affect my feelings for my sister. we are both in this together and to make you think she is bad or wrong is bad and wrong of me. She is a wonderful person and is in this situation with me. Shame on me for flapping on social media.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-51644291469967163462017-07-03T18:06:52.522-07:002017-07-03T18:06:52.522-07:00I love my sister and I am allowing mom and my feel...I love my sister and I am allowing mom and my feeling or frustration and anger about her behavior to affect my relationship with my sister and that is wrong. You will really like her and I need to get a grip and quit being a martyr. Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-28937575345813526392017-07-03T18:05:12.181-07:002017-07-03T18:05:12.181-07:00Actually the problem is really mom and I am and wa...Actually the problem is really mom and I am and was unfair to my sister. Just feeling alone and sorry for myself.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-76546766764953629172017-07-03T15:45:44.915-07:002017-07-03T15:45:44.915-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-79956372252082754702017-07-03T12:31:47.395-07:002017-07-03T12:31:47.395-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-69684549966839696472017-07-03T12:29:02.773-07:002017-07-03T12:29:02.773-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-79717431862988561292017-07-03T11:35:16.769-07:002017-07-03T11:35:16.769-07:00You old your sister exactly what she needed to hea...You old your sister exactly what she needed to hear...if you don't like how I am doing this, then you do it yourself. It sounds as if you really take very good care of your mother. Your sister should be grateful. <br />Oh, GOD FORBID! Not LDS! The horror! Sheesh. How narrow minded. I refuse to countenance any church which dismisses our Mormon brothers and sisters. And from what I know of my LDS friends, I feel safe saying that your faith, at many times, might be the only thing keeping your from booting your mother right out the door.<br />Meg B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09871105973774159424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-30239867939195499682017-07-03T10:29:11.962-07:002017-07-03T10:29:11.962-07:00I am truly sorry you are having issues with your s...I am truly sorry you are having issues with your sister about you mom's care. I understand perfectly how frustrating and time consuming it can be (and Mom does not even live with me). I am so thankful My Beloved Sister and I are on the same page where Mom is concerned, because I can see how hard a difficult situation could be with differences of opinions MBS and I have made it clear to Mom that we share all info regarding her with each other, so she will not be able to play one of us against the other.<br />Hang in there and get ready for company who will be on your fighting side!Anne in the kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01533249631969001657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-48659007986437404502017-07-03T09:32:01.895-07:002017-07-03T09:32:01.895-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-30151782358052125662017-07-03T09:29:33.043-07:002017-07-03T09:29:33.043-07:00Thank you, I am finally in a financial position to...Thank you, I am finally in a financial position to do this.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-72995824871201976982017-07-03T09:29:00.125-07:002017-07-03T09:29:00.125-07:00I am a Mormon. Mom hates my religion, but really ...I am a Mormon. Mom hates my religion, but really she hates my husband. If Hub's was rich, and a hard worker and had been someone she could brag about she would have over looked the religion. But as he is lazy and can be a pompous ass sometimes.... Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-60133696685340050732017-07-03T09:26:35.926-07:002017-07-03T09:26:35.926-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-65930206739376539862017-07-03T09:25:56.561-07:002017-07-03T09:25:56.561-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-90060746823331783022017-07-03T09:25:03.400-07:002017-07-03T09:25:03.400-07:00I am a Mormon, my mother is an old school Methodis...I am a Mormon, my mother is an old school Methodist.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-73920294542005709262017-07-03T09:24:10.772-07:002017-07-03T09:24:10.772-07:00Thank youThank youOut My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-68715362167083590952017-07-03T06:32:06.574-07:002017-07-03T06:32:06.574-07:00My heart goes out to you with the family issues. ...My heart goes out to you with the family issues. I wish your sister would learn that putting mom in between you two doesn't work. You are rocking the debt and taking steps to have a greater peace of mind in regards to money. You are very much appreciated and and looked up to! Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02863887265545701157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-81759488015793193572017-07-03T05:13:34.387-07:002017-07-03T05:13:34.387-07:00Good for you with the $3,000 saving goal. Many pe...Good for you with the $3,000 saving goal. Many people do the month ahead plan (YNAB, for instance), and there is a real peace in having the money on hand to pay bills. It takes a lot of stress out of bill paying!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-37869664641885678972017-07-03T05:04:07.271-07:002017-07-03T05:04:07.271-07:00I'm so sorry, Kim. I don't know what your...I'm so sorry, Kim. I don't know what your religion is, but from what you share on your blog, it must be one of caring about others, much like Jesus taught us to do. Hugs as you deal with your mom and your sis. <br /><br />When it comes to money, you and I share so many of the same struggles. I've been trying to slowly add to our savings for the very same reasons you have. Now if I could only leave it put!Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04354023162037312551noreply@blogger.com