tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post4597468658188449212..comments2024-03-29T00:43:01.429-07:00Comments on Out My Window: Wednesday, A little betterOut My windowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-74485020679751685992023-05-30T14:10:50.479-07:002023-05-30T14:10:50.479-07:00Okay I was just trying to protect them from the de...Okay I was just trying to protect them from the deerOut My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-57234440958615650292023-05-30T14:10:22.146-07:002023-05-30T14:10:22.146-07:00She is so funny.She is so funny.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-28279323427645943702023-05-30T14:10:13.026-07:002023-05-30T14:10:13.026-07:00Everywhere we go, dolly is getting a little bedrag...Everywhere we go, dolly is getting a little bedraggled.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-89654900701892195992023-05-30T14:09:54.950-07:002023-05-30T14:09:54.950-07:00She is so funny.She is so funny.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-14029478097613174462023-05-30T14:09:41.999-07:002023-05-30T14:09:41.999-07:00Grace is such a beautiful name and concept, too ba...Grace is such a beautiful name and concept, too bad I am not good at it...Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-2730534705922908052023-05-30T14:09:10.285-07:002023-05-30T14:09:10.285-07:00I know and I just want it to go away says 2 year o...I know and I just want it to go away says 2 year old Kim.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-7288776495925129512023-05-30T14:08:39.383-07:002023-05-30T14:08:39.383-07:00Thanks Jackie.Thanks Jackie.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-52406303294584514422023-05-30T14:07:41.561-07:002023-05-30T14:07:41.561-07:00We could party together.We could party together.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-23956073505552275502023-05-30T14:07:24.486-07:002023-05-30T14:07:24.486-07:00I am all up for that. This is just really hard an...I am all up for that. This is just really hard and it comes and goes and time helps I think and then bang I am down in the dumps again. Greif brain is real my dear. I so wish we were close because even as sad as I am, I can make you and myself laugh at the stupidest things and Sluggy doesn't even have to be with us. Let's see if she reads this... :) I think my brain is better but my heart isn't. Hate that we are going through this. But I do love having someone else with me as stupid and coarse as that sounds. Just wish it was someone I disliked.....Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-11712664671464520032023-05-30T14:04:28.219-07:002023-05-30T14:04:28.219-07:00I might need to go to a counselor I have been thin...I might need to go to a counselor I have been thinking about it.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-86291895535810803442023-05-30T14:03:40.378-07:002023-05-30T14:03:40.378-07:00Thank you Cheryl I know you understand me and that...Thank you Cheryl I know you understand me and that helps alot.Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-39675908104189620852023-05-26T06:08:55.962-07:002023-05-26T06:08:55.962-07:00most berry bushes do not use cages but a trellis i...most berry bushes do not use cages but a trellis if it's a vine. A bush doesn't need anything , it can cause issues with growth if you use a cage.Chef Owingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232750876170243171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-36379742623443379912023-05-25T08:40:15.943-07:002023-05-25T08:40:15.943-07:00That is an adorable picture of Kelsa and her passe...That is an adorable picture of Kelsa and her passenger.T'Polhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16207033510057896918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-25744015596667606892023-05-25T03:26:42.944-07:002023-05-25T03:26:42.944-07:00Kelsa is adorable riding her dolly around with her...Kelsa is adorable riding her dolly around with her. Belindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17486895127003368291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-43039111072140002552023-05-24T19:12:52.419-07:002023-05-24T19:12:52.419-07:00I love that Kelsa rides with her bud along side he...I love that Kelsa rides with her bud along side her. She's too cute. Hawaii Plannerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04760426766801381563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-38482150030056946542023-05-24T18:26:54.470-07:002023-05-24T18:26:54.470-07:00Kelsa is adorable.
Grace__It is something you need...Kelsa is adorable.<br />Grace__It is something you need to give yourself. There is no time limit on grief.Anne in the kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01533249631969001657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-43806978836920297472023-05-24T17:48:10.809-07:002023-05-24T17:48:10.809-07:00Kelsa sure is a cutie pie Kim. You will have lots...Kelsa sure is a cutie pie Kim. You will have lots of days like yesterday - its just part of the grieving process. Try not to be so hard on yourself & just accept them when they come & give yourself lots of extra special care & time. You're doing okay Kim - its just day by day & sometimes its just hour by hour. xxJuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08301647145550214950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-15920685163221086312023-05-24T17:38:10.671-07:002023-05-24T17:38:10.671-07:00Kelsa is a real cutie. Grief takes as long as it t...Kelsa is a real cutie. Grief takes as long as it takes. I hope you start to have many more better days.<br /><br />God bless.Jackiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16051183778965359500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-10636850564233452782023-05-24T16:06:04.150-07:002023-05-24T16:06:04.150-07:00Does it give you any comfort to know that Joel was...Does it give you any comfort to know that Joel was spared the pain of living without you? Kim, Sam, and Hilogene, your husbands are gone and that is a terrible unending grief, but they were spared that grief. They never had to live without you, and that, maybe, can bring a tiny little bit of relief. Or maybe I'm full of crap. I'm losing a relative, 48, with a 15 year old son. Cancer sucks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-91311249168334539842023-05-24T14:43:37.697-07:002023-05-24T14:43:37.697-07:00There’s no playbook for grief, last i heard. You j...There’s no playbook for grief, last i heard. You just have to do what you can, as we all will. Like you, i need to be busy. I do a pretty good pity party, if i do say so myself.<br />DebbieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-27072948072567459342023-05-24T14:39:05.287-07:002023-05-24T14:39:05.287-07:00I'm still thinking of runaway places. Yeah, le...I'm still thinking of runaway places. Yeah, let's really think about that cruise next winter- if my brain isn't mush before then. Hilogene, that might be how my brain is operating, and my heart. I'm just so dang sad all the time, but must keep doing things done in normal time. I wish I could get good sleep. No grandkids, but the pups help me. SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-75511167152368512132023-05-24T14:20:50.410-07:002023-05-24T14:20:50.410-07:00Kelsa is beyond cute! Thank you for the photo;). ...Kelsa is beyond cute! Thank you for the photo;). And glad to see you posted again quickly, I was sad at your sadness. I was thinking grief was like a sine wave, up and down. But when I went to a mental wellness counselor and we talked about grief, she said she visualized it like a sideways spiral where the beginning loops are big and then over time the spiral shrinks in size. So she suggested the grief ups and downs would continue but at a smaller amplitude. Not sure I explained it well. Think of it like a tomato trellis, big at the top and smaller at the bottom ;). Happy planting, hilogene in AzAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809809639444040308.post-33726435392131882592023-05-24T13:05:54.621-07:002023-05-24T13:05:54.621-07:00She is so stinking cute.
Don't beat yourself u...She is so stinking cute.<br />Don't beat yourself up. It stinks - no uncertain terms. We can hold each other up and pray and just do our best!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.com