In every relationship there is a chaos Muppet and a control Muppet. Guess which one I am? The control Muppet holds things together, but without the chaos Muppet there would be no more cookies. Cookies are important.
Thanks for the advice on my dating life. Gaylord's kids live about 6 hours away; he usually visits them. I will likely get to meet his son at Halloween. My children live close except for Jethelyn, and she has been here twice since we started dating. Mostly because her younger sister had a baby and she has to come see that baby.
My younger sister asked the question, if he has been single for 14 years why the pressure? That is a question I will have to broach. I will keep you posted.
Gaylord is out removing the only tree on my property. It is a corrugated pussy willow. It is also snake habitat. As in at least 5 of the rattlesnakes found this year were by this tree. It is the perfect hiding and breeding place. So, like the grape vine it has to go.
I was able to get both those little person coats done yesterday. It was all hand work and time consuming. But they are done and I can call.
I will be starting on a wedding dress that needs to be done by tomorrow. I also have a bridesmaid dress the get hemmed. There are three zippers that I have been putting off, it is fall now so those have to be done this week.
I have to go pick Will and Kelsa up from school at 2:15 so it will be a short day. That means I have to get busy and quit having so much fun.
I took a load to the dump in my hatchback yesterday and then I also took a load this morning. So, I cleaned the big mess all by myself. I am very proud of me.
Now I have to get to work.
God is good
Kim
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Girl don't be pressured into anything.
ReplyDeleteYou have had a busy day.
Don't worry I have a hard time saying no, but I also don't respond well to pressure.
DeleteYou do you my dear. No pressure should make you feel like you have to be different than you are.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
Thanks Jackie!!
DeleteI would say after 14 years the jets should be cooled already.
ReplyDeleteChaos can be fun sometimes. Especially if it brings cookies!
I would think the same thing, actually counting on that....
DeleteA few thoughts/questions for you: do you feel ready to date again, or are you just enjoying the companionship/having someone around to do chores you can't/don't want to do? Why the rush on his side (as others have noted)? Assuming you are ready to date again, if he's the right person for you, he should be fully supportive of your moral compass. -- Hawaii Planner
ReplyDeleteYou are right about all of this, and he is I just suffer from guilt which is so stupid.
DeletePRENUP ... lesson learned when I got married to late Hubby's best friend. SIGH. Hubby and I had one signed before we got married and never had the issues
ReplyDeleteTrust me I would do a prenup if it comes to anything serious.
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