Mom had a bad spell on Friday on our way up to Spokane. We were half way so decided to go ahead and go to the city. Thank goodness we did as mom has not been having strokes but has been having seizures. A cat scan was performed and a neurologist confirmed brain shrinkage and brain tissue missing. Now the seizures may have been brought on by mini strokes, but the brain showed no sign of stroke damage. As mom has a DNR on her record and the last seizure was a terrible grand mall that could not be stopped without 3 large doses of meds, we decided to honor her wishes and seek no further medical intervention.
They bundled her up in a cocoon and put her in the back seat of my car. She was comatose at the time. We brought her home and hospice is being contacted. Mom has some semi lucid moments and she likes to be held and cuddled. The younger two girls have been with me constantly through this mess and what a blessing they have been.
I am quite sleep deprived but that is getting better with help. We had so much backed up washing and ran out of nightgowns and sheets, that is finally under control. I just want her to be comfortable.
I spent at least 12 hours yesterday deep cleaning her bathroom and parts of her bed room. I just had to keep moving so I could keep my anxiety at bay.
I am sorry for not being able to comment on blogs but I am so behind right now. Pray for my mother and for me. I will need strength to get through this.
Kim
thinking of you and your family Kim and hoping your mums passes peacefully xx
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, Kim. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and of course my prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear the news of your mom. Take care.
ReplyDeleteYou and your mom have my prayers. I wish peace for you both.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry - your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers!!! Keep strong!!!
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I am so sorry. No matter how much we think we are ready, when the time actually comes, it is an entirely different story. Hugs. I'll keep your family in prayer.
ReplyDeleteKim I am so sorry your Mom, you and your family are having to go through this.
ReplyDeletewill keep you all in my prayers. God bless you all.
I am so sorry Kim. You have been such a good daughter and your mom is blessed to have family so close. God Bless your mother and your family.
ReplyDeleteOh, Kim. I am so sorry. You have been a loving a caring daughter, always thinking of her needs, and I hear this in your words now. Let your family all hold each other, keep each other supported, and give each other breaks when you can. You are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteKim, my heart is just breaking for you, your mother and your entire family. My love and prayers are with you all.
ReplyDeleteOh, my friend, I am so sorry. Reading and commenting on blogs is the last things you need to worry about. I will be praying for comfort for your mother, peace for you both and for you to have the strength you need to care for your mother and the emotional stress that I am sure you are feeling.
ReplyDeletePreparing to say good by to our parents is one of the hardest things in this life. Peace be with you.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you and your family. May peace be with you during this heartbreaking time.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you and your family. May peace be with you during this heartbreaking time.
ReplyDeleteOh, Kim, This must be so hard. I think Hospice will relieve lots of the physical burdens. I am so sorry you girls have to go through this. Does your mother have any idea what is happening? You are in my thoughts. Hang in there. I know how the work keeps you sane. Rest, too.
ReplyDeleteI have walked this road with both grandmothers, and my husband's father. While it's hard, I've never regretted a moment of the time I spent near the end with any of them. (To clarify, there was lots of family support--not just me alone). I know you will always be glad you are there with your mom at this time. I also clean a lot when stressed. It's helpful to me.
ReplyDeleteNo worries, God is there to get rid of all our sorrows. Your mother will get well soon. Prayers for her and for you to h=get strength to take care of her...
ReplyDeleteCommenting the blog is secondary one, so you need not worry about that!
So sorry Kim. I'm sure your mom is glad to be at home and not in the hospital. My thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this, Kim. I will be praying for you all and will light a candle at church for you. Much love, Heloise.
ReplyDeleteDear, dear Kim. Take care. Thinking of you xxxx
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Kim. You are a wonderful daughter and don't you forget it. Take care.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Kim. My heart breaks for you and your family. Sending prayers of comfort!
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, you knew this day was coming but that doesn't make it any easier. I know your kids will rally round you. I hope your mom finds some comfort on this journey.
ReplyDeleteLet me know when it's a good time to call you....
Hugs!!!
I am so sorry this is happening now, but you will get through it. Prayers for you, your mom and your family.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry. God's peace to you all.
ReplyDeleteOk, Kim, I am so sorry - I know how hard this is. Prayers for you all.
ReplyDeleteI hope hospice care works out for your mom - you need the help and usually they are such wonderful and compassionate people who know and understand what you're going through. So sorry it has come to this Kim but know you've done the best that you can do for her. She will be surrounded with love while on this journey - that's all anyone can ask. Hugs to you and your family.
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