Saturday, November 16, 2013

Saturday, We did it for now!

     Well the bro is gone.  It was a mess but he has been served papers.  The house locks have been changed and all the windows secured.  It was ugly and bro was very awful, he did his normal run, climb out on the roof and hide from police and then call back and abuse mother verbally on the phone, because he has to be abusive in some way, but mom had people there.  Her lawyer, a woman from adult protective services and the sheriffs deputies, they all got an earful of how bro talks to mom. f%^& bomb this and that and you are a stupid f%$#ing this and that, you have seen it in the movies.  Mom was told he could return and get his things with a police man.  But for now they are gone!  Of course I am being blamed, because I was with mom the last two weeks and mom cannot carry anything out on her own.  SO be it.  At this point I don't care.  Now if we can just make it stick.

     I need to be at the church today at 2 for a service and then we are not sure if we are going to go out to dinner or invite people here for Pizza.  I am trying to decide which is cheaper.  Also which is less work.  If children are involved I do not allow sugar soda in the house and I really don't want the mess.  Also at the restaurant you can control the amount of time you must celebrate.  At home people may over stay and I would like some of the day to myself.  Selfish beast that I am.  Sigh.

   What I really want to do is go back to bed, I was up until after 5, just could not sleep. I think this whole thing with mom has me on a emotional edge.  I am tired and a we bit cranky, guess I had better get to work, because no one is going to take care of this day for me.

     Out My Window:  Hubby has been out raking leaves all morning.  The large oak tree has finally dropped.

Have a great and productive day.



  1. Well I'm glad to hear he's out of the house now. I hope your mom's resolve holds firm and she can finally have some peace in her own home.

  2. Good and how exhausting for you and your mom.

  3. So sorry to hear about the situation with your family. Wishing you & your mom lots of strength in dealing with it.

  4. Hurrah hurrah!! Let's hope she can stay firm! Now that that has come to a happy conclusion I am ordering you to bed!! Go!!