Monday, June 12, 2023

Monday, RA and eyes.

 

Well, the eye problem is directly related to my rheumatoid arthritis. It is rare but it does happen. It is just that RA usually took people out in their 50's from heart failure but with all the new treatments it is now showing up in the eyes.  Anywhere there is connective tissue, RA can rear it's ugly head.  Or send out blood vessels to destroy tissue.  Lucky me.

Fortunately, it responds well to medication which is very cheap. $2.00 a month.  I was almost pain-free by Friday morning. My eye feels tight but not painful.  I will have to be treated the rest of my life, but this is doable. One more doctor visit. One more specialist.

Spent several hours as Lil sis's pool this weekend and it was lovely and relaxing.

I had that wedding dress appointment on Friday that I scheduled. It was for a very, very hard alteration that I had been dreading. I had pulled the dress out several times and put it back.  I drew pictures of it.  I made patterns and finally realized I just needed her body here while I did the alteration.  I asked her which day she could come and just sit in the shop in a bathrobe.  She chose Friday and even though it is my day off, I needed to get that dress out.  It was causing me sleepless stress.

So, she shows up at 1 o'clock and we get started. I had already ripped all the narrow ribbon off and was ready to start cutting. First, I took darts in the back, so the waist was snug.  I was not going to mess with removing the invisible zipper. She tried dress on and that worked.  Then I took in the sides of the lace to make it fit the curve of the waist and she tried it on again.  Now that was done.  I had to remove the cap sleeves and cut a huge chunk out of the bust area, which was scary.  But I had her hold the dress up to her chest so it could see what needed to be removed, and then zig zagged the arms pieces back into chest area.  The seams were all covered by 1/4 inch grosgrain ribbon. Fun to sew on and remove (not). Then she tried it on again.  Now I had to take underarm seams in and match up. Another try on.  Then the shoulders seams had to come up 1 1/2 inches. and another try on. We were getting somewhere. Now all the grosgrain had to be replaced.  I did the criss cross on the bust first as that would stabilize the shoulders.  Then a try on. That gave a snug fit so I replace the rest of the ribbon. The ribbon acted as a stabilizer for the lace. Now we had a perfect fit and I added two sets of breast pads, one thin and one heavier to fill out cup. It was perfect except for the hem. I just took a pleat seam in the hem from the side to the side in front as there was a scallop on the bottom and I was not going to embroider that crap back on.  But she loved it.  It took 3 3/4 hours.  She left happy and I was so relieved.

That was a bad one may I never get another, but it is gone!  SO happy.

I have two dresses to get out today.

Kim is back!


26 comments:

  1. I would rather try a murder case any day, all day, multiple days/weeks etc. than deal with altering THAT wedding dress or any wedding dress!!!!! OMG!!!!! That sounds so stressful and miserable!!!!! Kudos to you for having the skills to do that and the patience!!! I need a Diet Coke or Diet Mt Dew after reading that… lol. So sorry your eye has issues but really glad you are seeing a specialist. I have been meaning to ask you, are you and your twin, fraternal or identical twins? I ask because in the pictures you look like identical twins to me. Cindy in the South

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    1. We are identical, but we really don't look that much alike any more.

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  2. I bet you could have made her a dress from scratch with less stress!

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  3. I have never heard that about RA and the eyes - interesting. Glad it is treatable.
    I have never understood why people buy dresses that are so far off in fit and design from what they seem to want! I can understand a little tweak here and there - but good grief!!!!!! You have more patience than I would have.

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    1. This dress was bought second hand, and people don't realize how hard it is to alter something.

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  4. I never knew all this about RA. It does not sound like fun or even bearable. But, I suppose ailments are all a problem.
    Oh, Kim. I was with you on every seam. I have had people come and sit while I altered or come every day for three days in a row. I was altering with two babies in the house. Taking off and replacing the grosgrain is a job in itself!
    Just looking forward to a job like that dress is enough to bring on depression! I am glad it is out of your way so you can relax and enjoy sewing, well, sort of.
    Does your twin have RA?

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    1. No Kay does not have RA. She did not have any children and that might be why.

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  5. WoW Kim ... just reading about that dress & all the work in it made my head spin. You sure are good at your job my friend. I think I would've been cross eyed by then. I am glad to read you have found a medication that works & its only $2 a month. A win at last. xx

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  6. Unless it's a family heirloom being passed down, why do women buy dresses that are nowhere near fitting them?? Np accounting for sense or taste I suppose. I am glad for you that ordeal in the condition you were in is over. Now go swim to Ireland and have some Dinky Donuts for me.

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    1. That does sound like fun. I will go get my water wings.

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  7. I stand in awe of you.
    With all you have gone through and are still going through, you do the impossible.
    And do it well. I hope that young bride appreciated what you did for her.
    Your an amazing lady.

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    1. Oops. “You’re”.

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    2. Well sometimes I stand in awe of me too and then I say why do you do this to yourself?

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  8. Wow that was a lot of alterations, but I am glad it all worked out for you and the bride. I am glad that the eye treatment is working and is an inexpensive one.

    God bless.

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  9. Badge of hero for you over that wedding dress. I have a close friend that has RA (along with 2 other arthritis) and she has been using the drops for almost a year now.

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  10. I agree about buying a dress that is nowhere near fitting. Why bother if it is going to have to be remade. Start from scratch and have someone make it from the ground up intend of deconstructing an existing dress. Unless, like Sluggy said, it was a family heirloom.
    I hope you charged a ridiculous alterations fee.

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    1. Oh Anne I did. Over 100 an hour. IT was a second hand dress and I don't think people have any idea just how hard it is or they would not buy.

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  11. I'll add my exhaustion reading that alteration. In the brides defense, I can see some salesperson telling her it's perfect, just needs a little fitting. Then, hoping to get the fat added costs by doing the alterations and charging. I experienced that with a bridesmaid dress. I hope you got your value in payment.

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    1. I did SAM. I thought about the salesperson that encouraged her to get the dress. I wanted to find her and slap her.

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  12. I also second Cheryl and Slugmamas bewilderment at someone buying a dress with that level of alteration required. Money in your pocket but yikes, stress too. Glad you wrestled it to the ground. And glad you have a fix for the RA related eye issue. I am wanting to update/renovate the condo I just bought, and found a woman today who can help me, she is a designer, so that is a huge relief. I have zero interest in, nor talent, in decorating. I have other talents ;). I am happy to have professional help plus it will keep me busy for the next few months. Busy is good. Hilogene in Az.

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  13. It sounds worse than sewing a dress from scratch. I am happy, it is all behind you now. I am bowing and curtsying to you with respect.

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    1. I think it was, and I am glad it is in the past.

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